i'm just curious..

if you have a miscarriage and call it a loss, does that also mean that you recognize abortion and it's effects as a loss?

i would hope so. because, a miscarriage is unplanned and for the most part unknown. you have to deal with it mentally and physically. so that goes to support that a planned abortion, that effects a woman even more negatively than a miscarriage is just as bad of a loss, if not more?

in this video- http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/32655563#32655563. "the minute of conception,.. it is alive" especially upon the focus of the date of loss. 8 weeks. a baby's heart begins beating at 3 weeks.

the day's still early. i'll ponder this a little more.