long before you ever came around.

i think that the DTR sucks, regardless of if you'd like to be headed in that direction, or not. i mean, it always gets the 'deer in the headlights' reaction (which lemme tell ya', is the scariest experience: driving, and having a deer stare at your headlights.. utah teaches you things) but, no one ever really wants to be set down and required to spit out their inner thoughts i think.

i think that in this day and age, it's a rough thing to do- expose yourself completely for the sake of a conversation, that will just define your title (not even necessarily your role in someone's life). 

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no one ultimately wants to be in a 'wait-and-see' situation, but us as human beings that like to avoid confrontation and confliction almost prefer that over the alternative- DTR's. it's almost easier to set ourselves up for failure, for misuse, and for extreme confusion as opposed to just exchanging a few words, emotions, observations, and expectations. there's an unsettled stomach in both situations, just the latter is more productive and conducive to the daily life, in comparison to the former.

... it's late, this isnt making much sense in my head anymore. my eyes are blurring and crossing- makes me think of sRach. but i will be adding more to this over the course of this blog.

xo.

[ you should know that there's been other's here. ]